Hi Everyone! Here is my lovely labia for you to gaze upon. When I was young (probably around 12-13) I thought I had somehow stretched my labia on accident.
I was always self conscious about it, then when I was about 16 I got REALLY self conscious because I heard from a friend that a boy I had slept with was going around telling everyone how horrible and gross my vagina was. I told him he was an asshole and never spoke to him again.
Lately I’m quite proud of my vulva, my boyfriend is very reassuring, he tells me he loves everything about it, and so do I.
I got my early ideas of what it “should” look like from seeing porn, as I’m sure a lot of women (and men) do. That is something that needs to stop.
Think of your vulva as a wonderful little (or big) flower, they’re all different shapes sizes and colors but they’re all beautiful!